Never respond to an angry person with a fiery comeback, even if they deserve it. Don’t allow their anger to become your anger —Bodhi Sanders.
I have come to understand that it is not words that are so powerful but rather our decision of when or when not to use them. Anger feeds anger. Hate feeds hate. The best way to conquer those two horrible things is to stop feeding them. Cut off their oxygen supply and the fire will be contained. Will you stop it or will you spread it? The choice is always yours.