Do you think it’s possible that our feelings toward someone affects the way they behave around us? Maybe it’s not their behavior that leads to our feeling about them but rather the other way around. It points us back to the original question, which came first, the chicken or the egg?
Today I made a real effort to be conscious of the way I was feeling about the people in my everyday life. I approached them in a gentler, kinder way and the exchanges were amazingly different than usual. Maybe we have more control over our relationships than we ever imagined and the missing link is controlling our own attitude and our own thoughts. I am looking forward to exploring this further and putting my theory to the test.
What are your thoughts?